Miguel Vagalume Bio

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In my practice, I address issues relating to desire, libido, relationships, complicated fantasies, and uncommon sexual practices, whether in monogamous, non-monogamous, or single contexts. I also specialise in complications within a relationship concerning parenting, particularly within heterosexual partnerships.

I offer specialist consultation (online or in-person in Madrid) for open relationships, polyamorous relationships, and consensual non-monogamy, encompassing heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or any other unconventional identity, orientation, or practice.

Worked for eight years within a collaborative team of four specialized psychologists in the areas of attachment, trauma, somatic therapy, and substance abuse.

INDIVIDUAL CONSULTATIONS

Issues related to identity, orientation, desire, fantasies, practices, behaviours, fears, attachment, hormonal changes, and more.

RELATIONSHIPS

Complications regarding desire, attraction, communication, cohabitation, life stages, and parenting, in both partnered and any type of non-monogamous relationships.

SEX THERAPY

Common issues concerning erections, orgasms, arousal, infections, etc. Also, problems arising from the side effects of psychotropic medication, in collaboration with our team of psychology and medical professionals.

POSITIONS HELD

  • Professor of the Master Universitario en Sexología at the University of Alcalá de Henares (INCISEX), teaching modules on Epistemology, Sex Education, and Sex Counselling.
  • Professor of the Master in Psychology of Sexual and Gender Diversity at the Official College of Psychology of Madrid (COP Madrid), teaching the module on Sexology and Diversity
  • Faculty member on the University Specialist in Sexual Education program at the Public University of Navarra (UPNA), teaching the module on marginalized sexual minorities
  • Guest Lecturer on the Diploma in Sexualities from an Intersectional Feminist Perspective (Maka Coletiva)
  • Professor of Sexology and Co-founder of Escuela Sexológica 
  • Translator of consensual non monogamy guides: The Ethical Slut (Easton and Hardy), Opening Up (Tristan Taormino), Jealousy Workbook (Kathy Labriola), When someone you love is polyamorous (Eli Sheff), More than two (Eve Rickert), Fair Play (Pepper Mint), Breaking the rules (Meg John Barker), Polysecure (Jessica Fern) and many articles about sexuality, kink and consensual non monogamy.
  • Author part of the colection (h)amor, published by contintametienes, about CNM (volume 1) and jealousy (volume 3), as many articles published in
  • Co-founded of golfxsconprincipios.com in 2008
  • Possessing a long-standing history of activism and participation in the poly, queer, and fetish communities of Brighton (UK) and Madrid, dating to the 1990s

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